The Border Collie Chronicles Observations from (arguably) the World's Smartest Dogs; (but, without question, the bestest friends!) or, Life As We Understand It, as told from dad's shop. |
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Posted July 23, 2015 |
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You can’t always win!
By Rooney … But, you gotta
try!
If you still don’t get what you
were reaching for … that’s ok too!
Improvise and have fun while you’re
waiting for the next opportunity to grab for it!!! I got to thinking
about this topic while visiting with a fella by the name of Flody
Boatwood.
You see as I got to understanding
ol’ Flody a little better, I understood that he was anxious as heck
to head to the islands.
He keeps trying in the best way
that he knows, he has some
success … but even though he wasn’t 100% successful, he didn’t give
up … he just accomplishes it in another way … “Put my ass in
a lawn chair,
Life is good today!”[i] Other folks find
other ways to deal with their own form of escapism (which is
the
mental diversion by means of entertainment
or recreation, as an "escape" or dissociation from the perceived
unpleasant or banal aspects of daily life).
You can “Ask” escapism and find a whole
lot of opinions (well, multiple expressions of the two edges of
escapism – For and Against).
My take on it is, in order
for escapism to be healthy, you
must be accessing these fantasy worlds with positive intentions,
rather than as an attempt to escape reality.
Intention
is the key.
If
you are merely trying to make negative feelings go away, and you do
it reflexively, you are practicing the “bad form” of escapism.
If
you use it as an occasional means of taking a mental break from the
stressors of life, hey … no problem!!
Here are some more thoughts on escapism
(we like these too!):
“Barmaid,
play me some Buffett,
I’m in a mood to get away.
So pour me a vacation,
I need to leave here right
away.
I’ve got to get out by the
ocean,
If it’s only in my mind.
Take me out to paradise, if
only for tonight,
I can leave it all behind.”[ii] And … “Pour
me something tall and strong.
Make it a hurricane before I go insane.
It’s only half past twelve, but I don’t care …
It’s five o’clock somewhere!”[iii] Yeah … you know
that us BC’s do like our tunes … music itself, is … in a sense, a
form of escapism don’t you reckon?
Heck, that’s the way that we look
at it! Music can be celebratory as well (that’s
most often the way it is around his ol’ place!), yeah, it can be
somber, or downright depressing at times too – but let’s focus on
the celebratory part right now, shall we: “I
can’t complain, but sometimes I still do.
Life’s been good to me so far!”[iv] And … “Sunrise,
there’s a fire in the sky
Never been so happy,
Never felt so high,
And I think I’ve might’ve
found me my own kind of paradise.”[v] WOW – those two can fit many sorts of
situations … I also use my
tunes to do a little reflecting and thinking … like this one:
“Heaven
knows that I ain't perfect, I've raised a little cain,
And I plan to raise a whole lot more, Before I hear
those angels sing,
Gonna get right with the Lord, But there'll be hell
to pay,
But I ain't in no hurry.
Ain't in no hurry, Be a fool now to worry,
About all those things I can't change,
And the time that I borrow, Can wait till tomorrow,
Cause I ain't in no hurry, Ain't in no hurry, Ain't
in no hurry today!”[vi] Amen!!!! Just remember when you’re making that list …
Beer Ice Beer Wishing you all the best!!!
Roosevelt (If you gained nothing else from this little
article – you at least got some links to some really good videos!)
[i]
“Toes” by Zac
Brown Band
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lB8Nkn3Xjes
[ii]
“Pour Me A Vacation” by The Great Divide
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bdin8bWYHtI
[iii]
“Five O’Clock Somewhere” by Jimmy Buffett and Alan Jackson
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BPCjC543llU
[iv]
“Life’s Been Good”
by Joe Walsh
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p29jRMHP3G0&list=RDp29jRMHP3G0
[v]
“Knee Deep” by Zac
Brown Band
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9n5G0qFBsHM
[vi]
“No
Hurry”
by Zac Brown Band
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TZBR0yh3CO4
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